Everyone sucks about describing the anger phase. They treat it like angry incels yelling on Twitter which couldn’t be less helpful. I’ll save you the trouble of subscribing to their newsletters, they are grifting shitheads and only know how to repeat what some other asshole said.
For the praxeological man, it’s more important to understand the purpose of anger. When life hits hard, when your wife cheats or no longer fucks you or wants to leave and take the kids you go through the process. 5 stages of grief. First you denied it, then you tried to communicate with her, and now you’re pissed off.
You’re pissed off for good reason, and just acknowledging that your anger is valid puts what I’m saying above 99% of assholes out there trying to make you the ‘best man you can be’ or whatever shit sells merch.
Of course you’re angry for a pain and angry for a grievance. Most men never address the grievances and this is why they never stop being angry. Know, that you feel angry because on some level, you were ashamed of betrayal, being taken for granted, fraud and or opportunity cost.
The path for your MAP is what I lined out in Frame. At least thats the best we’ve come up with so far.
https://rianstone.substack.com/p/how-exactly-do-you-take-the-red-pill
Read the requisite guides on fixing the various aspects of your life. That’s the intellectual pillar. Learn to manage the nature of women and your own emotional shortcomings and capabilities. That’s Rational Male and the emotional pillar. Get your ass to the gym, clean up your diet and start being hot. Thats the physical pillar. Finally, you take this base level of talent and use it to carve out a vision for your future. That’s Frame.
For those who are reading this via email or for free this is where I say goodbye. For the rest of you, here’s a deep dive, along with two great field reports of men showing anger in the two ways it manifests, internally and externally.
Anger
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