I can’t remember who originally said it, so I’ll call him Good Billy. He had a great field report of the issues he had, dating a borderline woman. BPD, a serious mental health condition is characterized by pervasive instability in moods, interpersonal relationships, self-image, and behavior. So a woman, dialed up to 11.
And while he said all the things we all know: the sex was great, the good days were good, the bad days were bad, and the ratio of good to bad days went from mostly good to mostly bad. They ended with all bad days where he was holding onto the dream of having a good day back.
This is how most guys find dating the borderline work. It’s the same type of bait and switch that hooks gambling addicts. Win a few hands at the blackjack table, then lose twice as many. But you keep playing, because you are still chasing that attainable high that your hand gave early on. Next thing you know you’re sucking dick behind a dumpster so you can play a few more hands.
Billy was a regular in the Red Pilled subreddit. He knew all the same stuff that most the Red Pill guys did. He knew about Rollo, the iron rules, and the dual mating hypothesis. Alpha Fux and Beta Bux, lover and provider, or K and R selection theory, name it however you want. He tried something novel. He wanted out of this relationship and so he started acting like the worst simp in the world. Sending I love you texts every day, buying flowers, fawning etc.
Why would Billy do exactly what everyone has been saying doesn’t work? Because he tried to break up with this borderline before, and she keyed his car and slashed his tires and stalked his house and called friends and family and generally made it worse for him in every way. So he decided to become a beta male.
The funny thing is that it worked. In his report, it took him a few weeks of acting this way, but she flipped a switch, lost her attraction for him, and left. She didn’t get crazy this time. She didn’t do any crazy stuff because he offered nothing to her insanity laden dopamine crazed nonsense. She just felt her vagina drying out and left.
The field report did okay. It never got a lot of traction, no one wrote a giant theory essay or make a YouTube video on it, or use it to bolter their podcast numbers. It was a niche scenario, and it worked.
Which wasn’t that important. Most guys learned it was a situation they never needed to be in. Learn to spot the borderline, learn to have fun and leave the borderline, or learn to accept the hardships and enjoy your turn at the crazy ferris wheel. Worst case scenario you can accidentally knock up the borderline, and her hormones will change, for a time, resulting on you being a single dad with a kid you love and a woman you want to kill, but can’t.
He wasn’t the only guy who did this either. There was another post about what to do if you accidentally knocked up a one night stand. Now that one was popular. It had everything the feminists loved to see: a guy acting in his own self interest, blatant misogyny, borderline illegal and manipulative acts. They wanted a villain and even Batman couldn’t find one this diabolical.
His case study comes later. First, it’s the guy who isn’t Red Pilled. His story is shorter, disjointed, and shows how important Frame is, comparatively.
In the Bad Billy case, he had no frame, constantly fell into his borderline womans frame. He tried to supplicate to her, and appeal to her good nature instead of playing the power dynamics in play. And of course, women can accept just about anything from a man: drug use, abuse, cheating, etc. The one thing they cannot accept those is weakness.
And before I start with Bad Billy’s field report, a primer for you.
There’s a difference between tactical supplication, and supplication.
Slamming a crazy woman makes you the villain. You cannot out alpha the judge.
If you’re down at the blackjack tables, you need the sense of mind to be able to walk away and stop chasing the 21.
Fortitude against the system is one of the best and most difficult skills to develop. Ask me how I know.
Notice the difference between scarcity and abundance when it comes to money, and why, even if you’re worried about your resources, never let anyone see you sweat about them.
And come back to Bad Billy’s field report after reading Good Billy’s field report. Map the differences between them on your life. If you’re lucky, you don’t have a heavy court case, a knocked up borderline, or other legal issues to test yourself against. But if you do, this stuff matters. No more LARPING about being dark triad, Machiavellian, and patient. This time it’s for real. Ask me how I know. There’s a reason some of the strongest guys out there don’t talk tough. This stuff can be hell (ask me how I know) and while a strong man knows his can handle himself during the worst of it, he knows how horrific it can be and does his best to never be in that situation again.
My Year with a Borderline.
Accused me of rape, and still wanted to get back together with me.
Met this girl through friends of friends, she was from NZ but living in the UK, had a 1 year LTR. I couldn’t cum for six months. That made the relationship rocky. She was insecure, hated me jerking off, thought I would flirt with others, and never did.
We broke up a few weeks ago. It was nasty She was going through my phone like normal and saw a photo of a girl I had on my phone and she blew up on me. I ended it and she kept hitting me up saying she was gonna kill herself etc. The next day she came to my city which she never wanted to visit during the relationship. She got drunk in a park and got her dumb ass hospitalized, then reported me for rape,
I got arrested and spent the night in jail, luckily common sense prevailed in this dumb bitch and she dropped the charges a week later because she wouldn’t do a video interview.
The fine ass police detective handling my case was saying she still wants to see me, but I can get her done for harassment if she keeps trying to reach out, this baddie even came over to my house to drop my phone off instead of making me go to the cop station.
I let my frame slip so fucking bad in my first relationship, lesson learned. I did wanna see this bitch like one a week max but I ended up practically living in my car and getting hotels 3 days a week to see her.
I’m glad its over now. I wasted a year, graduated from university, but have no job because we spent all our time fighting. I’m low on funds because that bitch was expensive, (like 16k over the year) but I want to find my groove. I need to hit gym and am already working on my side hustle and the moneys rolling in, finally.
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