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Mental Models from Cast Study 2

The followups

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Dec 12, 2023
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Now these field reports are 9 years old. The people have since moved on and had wonderful marriages, some stuck around and helped guys, and are still around today. In that decade, we have come to understand how better to refine our actions in these very simple situations.

Lost frame over a beer

When men first learn to start having boundaries they find it harder than it should be. Partially it’s because a lot of men have never had to be selfish before, others have never been able to define their own boundaries, other than through their woman’s lens. Mostly, it’s because we are creatures of habit.

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