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James's avatar

This was very insightful and really hit home for me. Thanks for the practical advice.

Rian Stone's avatar

It’s funny. Every time I write one of these, there’s always someone having the exact experience themselves.

glad it helped

Justin Case's avatar

"Don't turn down sex since you don't wan to set the expectation that you both can do so."

What about starfish sex? Go along or get off and say "this isn't working for me"?

Miles's avatar

Good stuff. I was just thinking recently about how all those fempowerment memes sound like cheesy, feminized versions of the lessons men take from the manosphere.

Just when I'm wondering if anyone had made that observation yet, here it is

Count Mackula's avatar

A good reminder on "It's not about the nail!" when women speak. They're venting their "reality" thru CURRENT emotions.

This also hit home because I was just telling a friend of mine that women have terrible memories while I still remember interactions with them from 10+ years ago. Great read sir!!

Rian Stone's avatar

And also that you don’t have to accept it if you don’t want to. Focus on what you want