What else is there?

Point and sputter isn't a solution.

I’m not throwing shade. Georgi is a kind person, a loving mother, and from what I know, a good wife. But if the best of us are this angry when guys take steps to control their lives, we just might not make it.

What you have here is a hypothetical: a wife who refuses to sleep with her husband while enjoying all the benefits of marriage. Learned helplessness. While the husband in hypothetical, real men live like this. Too many.

And if you break it down, you have a wife who has taken complete advantage of him, taken him for granted, to the point where, out of pure desperation, is willing to listen to guys who used to be like him and found their balls, what is the one thing that is immoral in this?

That he dared to step out.

There is none, nor ever will be, angry cadres of happily married women angry that women are browbeating their husbands, using his good nature as a weapon to extract everything from him while providing nothing in return. they don’t see this pain because it’s not their pain.

She is happy, so what’s the problem?

But the stupid shit isn’t what’s ruining the marriage. The frigidity isn’t what’s ruining the marriage. The lack of communication isn’t ruining marriage. That men care too much about the happiness of others instead of themselves is the problem with marriages.

Briana thinks men don’t care to know why desire fades. We know exactly why desire fades. We even made a damned chart for it, it’s that Womens desire is a dual strategy. Exciting sexual adventure at first, then secure emotional attachment during the baby years, followed up by a renewed search for excitement.

“Too much evopsych” is an odd way to describe a scientific theory that perfectly describes what men experience. A fun loving girlfriend who has turned into a loving and nurturing wife, morphing into an embittered wife who yearns for more.

Is it all women? No. If you’re in a miserable marriage is it your woman? Go ask around, you’ll be surprised. Of course no one cares if it’s factually correct, or objectively true, but it fits the facts good enough. So that’s what we go with. When someone provides something better, then we will go with that.

No one ever does though.

No one ever has a better idea, a better roadmap, a better explanation, or a better course of action. There’s a lot of pearl clutching, moral indignation, and shaming language, or as Rich Cooper would say “Pointing and sputtering.” These aren’t solutions, these are instinctive manipulations.

So when you receive the blast of shit, just remember. No one cared about you when you were in a lackluster marriage with a ball busting, frigid wife who took advantage of you and for granted. More accurately, you allowed yourself to be. Now that everyone does care, where you decided you were in charge of your own life and happiness, it will feel hallow.

Don’t take it personally. They still don’t care about you, they only care how it makes them feel. Wives who are good feel bad because they aren’t like that and they wouldn’t like to be treated like this. Wives who aren’t good will feel bad because they have been selfish for so long that a little equality feels like oppression.

So let them get mad. Let them bleed. And if they ask you how far you are willing to go, just say,

“Watch me.'“

After all, if they really cared about all this, they would have taken that bitch wife aside and used those same shaming tactics, that you experience, on your soon to be ex wife and told her to fuck her husband and stop nagging so much.

You exist for you. You will always exist for you. Others will try, by hook or by crook to manipulate you for their wishes. It’s your job to take the short end of the stick you’ve been given, sharpen that sonofabitch up, and stab anyone who gets in your way —Humansockpuppet

And before anyone thinks to comment about looksmaxxing, or fruit fly studies or whatever malarkey that retards online use to rage bait their audiences in order to get clout and money, tilt at windmills on their time, not mine.